I spent my days in a charming cabin surrounded by trees, kept warm by a little wood-stove. Just trust me and pick up a copy.I was at an idyllic women’s writing retreat. I could go on, but anything I would say is said better by Oluo in this book.

And at the same time, when white men don’t reach the levels of power and supremacy they’ve been promised, they lose their shit, punishing the rest of us along the way. White men are given repeated opportunities that women and people of color have to fight for and seldom get. The assumption that white male is ‘normal’ or ‘neutral,’ and everyone else is a deviation from that norm, a special interest, is literally killing people. I think many of us realize how white male power constantly and consistently makes the world a worse place. I was like 25 pages in and found myself saying out loud ‘oh my gosh, of course, but holy shit.’ Actually I think that could be my refrain throughout large chunks of this book – nothing is necessarily brand new, especially to people who have either taken an interest in social justice issues or have lived experiences in these areas, but the connections are on another level. I found myself wanting to share so much with my partner as I read.įor example, just in the first chapter Oluo connects Buffalo Bill to the Cliven Bundy incident in the Pacific Northwest. The book has seven chapters exploring connections between everything from the white invasion of what is now the western US to American football. When I heard she had a new book coming out, and on such an evergreen and yet extremely relevant topic, I was excited, because I knew I’d learn something. She makes connections and provides context, research, and new information to every topic she takes on. She takes on topics and explores them in ways that others may not have before. Due to living in the UK and different release dates (and our impatience and attempt to secure a copy from the US) we now have two copies – one for me and one for my partner.Īuthor Oluo is a brilliant writer. I loved her first book, and knew I needed to read this one. (That’s just a small sample of what I furiously underlined in the first 30 pages of the book. “Perhaps one of the most brutal of white male privileges is the opportunity to live long enough to regret the carnage you have brought upon others.” “How can white men be our born leaders and at the same time so fragile that they cannot handle social progress?” “What I’m saying is that white male mediocrity is a baseline, the dominant narrative, and that everything in our society is centered around preserving white male power regardless of white male skill or talent.”

All the people, but I think white men really need to read and sit with this one.Īuthor Oluo explores the ways in which the elevation of the mediocrity of white men harms everyone (including white men).

White male mediocrity book